The Wellness of Performance
clutters things up and gets in the way of the game. Leave it all on the
sideline, or in the changing room – or, better still, keep it out of your life altogether. In aspiring to be a
masterful competitor it’s worth remembering that the best fighters, the best
players, always ‘travel light’.
think you can’t be afraid when you go into a match.
If you’re afraid that you’re not going to do well enough then you’ll just be
trying to replicate what you think other people want you to do.
replicating is never the way to convince people that you know what you’re
of being on the field and involving your team mates with your performance, and
connecting with the opposition as well, is not thinking twice about everything
you’re doing – you just have to be really well prepared. As prepared as you can
never completely ready – you just do your best in the moment.
think really the best thing you do when you go into a match, regardless of
whatever has been going on in your life beforehand – is just to go into it
looking forward to it, expecting it to be a lot of fun, and realise that everyone
involved wants to have fun, they want to enjoy the performance, or if not have
fun – at least have a satisfying experience.
they are going to look for that in the contest, and if you have a satisfying
experience of being on the field then that really helps with the unity of yours
and the team’s performance.
terms of preparation, there is no shortcut around taking care of yourself.”
pleasure in playing the game skilfully, and skills are a set of processes. If
you apply those sets of processes well, then you can compete. Competing can
only be a pleasure if you link it to applying your skills and your love of playing
the game. And out of the pleasure of competing well comes the satisfaction of true
So, what of winning?
sadly, you can never have the satisfaction of true success.
And to this end, you can also take the parallel view that life is a game – not a
drudge, a chore or a duty – and that you have every right to be part of the pleasure of the game.